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ben6
01-07-03, 06:44 PM
I've been visiting NV News since 1997/1998, back when Nvidia was a pindrop in the graphics business (Riva128 Viper3d.com)> In all of that time, I always thought I had earned the respect of Mike Chambers and , though I didn't post every day or post everything under the sun, i thought we had a understanding. Obviously , and sadly , I was wrong and mistaken

Further, my distinct absence from posting news and the forums had nothing to do with reviews that I obtained hardwar for other sites in their name for (it's hard to write a review for a site if I ask for it or receive such hardware from a company or the site in the name of another site)

Mike never bothered to email me till yesterday , asking where I was, what was going on, nor if everything was ok. Had he been absent, I would have emailed him. And in fact have.

You might ask where I've been. That's a good question. The last 6 months have been hard on me. I nearly lost my wife and have been laid off from my regular job.

I've spent most of the last two months trying to repair my family life. And sent Mike an email to that effect.

Now that that is behind me. My wife and I have reconciled, and my job situation is stabilized.The first email I got from the new year,was "Ben I've removed you from newspostings. I'm sure you can get enough work at Motherboards.org, Rage3d and PCRave"

Without going into the politics of the sites I work for/don't work for . I've always thought I maintained a close relationship with Mike with the understanding that I posted reviews on PCRave news on NVNews and PCRave. The Motherboards.org article was more or less a one-time deal. I had sent a email asking Mike if he was interested in the article, never got a response.

I never thought posting a link on Rage3d would be an issue either. Yet it was mentioined.

It's not my intention to make a big deal out of my life. Nor am I totally gone . But sometimes, I can't just stay silent on the issue when so many other changes have been made

LORD-eX-Bu
01-07-03, 07:02 PM
Sorry to hear that ben6. I hope you and your family are doing better. You are a cool guy, and are very nice. I'd hate to lose contact with you, so e-mail me if you like. You are also welcome at Envy. ;) Take care bro, sorry all this crap had to happen.

ben6
01-07-03, 07:15 PM
Appreciate the sentiment. Getting a layoff notice really sucks . But after much thought the situation haas changed today :) for the better.

Kruno
01-07-03, 09:17 PM
Not you too Ben. :(
Come to Envy or Beyond3d. I want to talk with you.

Good luck in future.

marqmajere
01-07-03, 09:22 PM
I put in a request for joining Envy but haven't gotten my e-mail on activating the account. (I like to post:D Hell. I'm still an active member at Rage3D) Is there a problem over there?

AshG
01-07-03, 09:29 PM
Hey man, email me... I'll try to fix it!

marqmajere
01-07-03, 09:32 PM
Originally posted by AshG
Hey man, email me... I'll try to fix it!

TEH EMAIL HATH BEEN SENT. :)

UDawg
01-07-03, 10:19 PM
That's rough Ben. I pray that the Lord brings you and your wife closer to each other and all your endevors are profitable.

A couple of years ago I did lose my wife. It was the worst year and a half of life, so I know what you are going through.

May the peace and the love of the Lord be upon you.

Matthyahuw
01-07-03, 11:01 PM
OMG Ben now too?

There's something more going on here than I guess any of us know...

SurfMonkey
01-08-03, 06:04 AM
This isn't a forum... It's ******* hamburger hill :kill: :rw:

I think the time has come to move to higher and safer ground until armageddon is over.

Bollox.

sbp
01-08-03, 07:18 AM
Your work has always been enjoyable Ben. http://sbp777.homestead.com/files/kawaii.gif

Taking care of your personal life and paying the bills must come first.
Sorry to see you and the others leave the site. http://home.earthlink.net/~sbp777/smilies/sadwavey.gif

Its pretty cold what happened. Not the first time (http://www.envynews.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=4418) either and judging by recent events. http://sbp777.homestead.com/files/ugone2far.gif

Can't understand this persistent lack of response. Seems rather rude and is really not excusable not to reply to those who help a website out with their work and time.

ben6
01-08-03, 02:22 PM
I want to say , it was within Mike's rights to do this. I have no issue with the termination, save a issue with the way it was handled.

Had Mike bothered to email me , call me , or otherwise contact me before taking action, all would have been fine , and I will still move on. That would have been a courtesy of the respect i thought he had of me.

A terse 2 line email and no reply to any attempt by me to contact him, shows the lack of respect he's had of me . And is just sad after the 4 years I've provided news to him in one form or another.

Head_slinger
01-08-03, 03:58 PM
A terse 2 line email and no reply to any attempt by me to contact him, shows the lack of respect he's had of me . And is just sad after the 4 years I've provided news to him in one form or another.

Yeah m8 that really suxx. I would leave to if you devoted time to help someone and they do that. Atleast u have gotten back on track with the reality part of your life.

Bye bye
gl

ben6
01-09-03, 01:54 PM
Update After a lot of soul-searching and conversation with Mike, we've reconciled. I'm still a little unhappy with the way it was handled, but it's all good

volt
01-09-03, 01:58 PM
Welcome back Ben
:hug:

Kruno
01-09-03, 08:45 PM
Uhm, he never said anything about coming back.

|JuiceZ|
01-09-03, 08:52 PM
Originally posted by K.I.L.E.R
Uhm, he never said anything about coming back.

:wimp: you forgot, mods know everything...... j/k :p