Thanks for the replies.
@adamk75 the only problem with is that /usr/X11R6/lib doesn't is a symlink to /usr/local/lib. I did that because I could get certain things to re-install after changing the X11 base. I have been rebuilding everything since Xmas
I tried the 9746 driver also and got the same results, I switched to 9631 that was the one in the ports.
I'll remove the symlinks latter today and see what happens next...