Assassins in eq2 use stealth all the time, they have to use it for their big attacks to activate
Conans not the game for me, ill stick with EQ2 untill WAR comes out and ill check it out.
I've been playing a Shadownight in EQ2 for 3 years now, i guess i got lucky and found a good guild - and i think thats what its all about, finding great people to play with.