Well by some form of luck I got the darn driver working (man I almost cried teras of joy when I saw the Nivdia logo). I still do not have a linux for under /usr/src but I did a search for linux and found a folder inder /usr/include. Could this be right?
I did a ln -s to /usr/include/linux and got the darn thing working somehow. Well I would still like to hear anyones thoughts on this so maybe now I can figure out what i may have done right if I have to go through this again. Thanks!