ok another update. I've been doing more research into this USB problem I've been having. I changed some USB settings in the device manager that would have turned off my usb ports to save energy, just to test whether or not this was the culprit. this didnt help any.
well I have 2 dvd capable drives, I then realized that I was playing all my dvd's on the same dvd drive. I tried the second drive and I have and no more problems, since the mouse stops working only when the 1st drive is being used I'm thinking there might be an IRQ conflict. I'm still trying to figure out how I could check whether or not that hunch is correct so any help from you all would be appreciated.