Would you date a...

PeterJensen · 04-08-07, 05:44 PM

35 year old women that are 10 years older then you are?

The story is that last summer i asked this lady at work out for a movie (yes she looks nice - no, i dont have pics...yet

) Well she turned me down...bummer yes

Well so yesterday i get a sms, that says something like "If the offer is still standing i would like to go to the movies with you sometime".
So i sms her back that we should go yesterday and we do. I picked the movie "The number 23".
20 min into the movie my hand meat her hand and we hold hans for like the entire movie (and i dont see the ****ing movie since all that is on my mind is her) (yes this is a bit corny). Well i guess the most of the dudes here know the feeling when you just cant think of anny other thing then her, and what you are gonna do next?
Well i drop her off and we kiss a bit. She ask's me in for coffe (yea...) but i turn her down since, well i dont reall know (my mistake).
So now i got another date with her next weekend for some dinner and movies at her place.
So do i go ahead with this? I mean wtf... i could be on deap water here.

kevJ420 · 04-08-07, 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by PeterJensen

35 year old women that are 10 years older then you are?

The story is that last summer i asked this lady at work out for a movie (yes she looks nice - no, i dont have pics...yet

) Well she turned me down...bummer yes

Well so yesterday i get a sms, that says something like "If the offer is still standing i would like to go to the movies with you sometime".
So i sms her back that we should go yesterday and we do. I picked the movie "The number 23".
20 min into the movie my hand meat her hand and we hold hans for like the entire movie (and i dont see the ****ing movie since all that is on my mind is her) (yes this is a bit corny). Well i guess the most of the dudes here know the feeling when you just cant think of anny other thing then her, and what you are gonna do next?
Well i drop her off and we kiss a bit. She ask's me in for coffe (yea...) but i turn her down since, well i dont reall know (my mistake).
So now i got another date with her next weekend for some dinner and movies at her place.
So do i go ahead with this? I mean wtf... i could be on deap water here.

You're pretty damn lucky to have a girlfriend that much older than you. You 2 love each other so I suggest you get married and have at least 1 kid with her.

PeterJensen · 04-08-07, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by kevpla1@cox.net

You're pretty damn lucky to have a girlfriend that much older than you. You 2 love each other so I suggest you get married and have at least 1 kid with her.

uhmmmm i guess thats one way of looking at it

Sazar · 04-08-07, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by PeterJensen

uhmmmm i guess thats one way of looking at it

Yah, so anyways. Go, have fun.

Don't regret NOT doing it.

SH64 · 04-08-07, 06:06 PM

Exact situation here .. perhaps with some different minor details.
anyway i'm not gonna tell the story

, but HELL YES I WOULD!

PeterJensen · 04-08-07, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Sazar

Yah, so anyways. Go, have fun.

Don't regret NOT doing it.

That plan sounds better to me

I'm 25 and she is 35, guess thats not so bad.

de><ta · 04-08-07, 06:11 PM

Mate, I feel like kicking you in the shins for refusing to go in for coffee!

But seriously nothing wrong in dating an older girl. And no you are not in deep water. Just relax and enjoy her company and see what happens. FYI don't go with any expectations.

edit: If she's a chick at work then, yeah it could be a problem later on if things get serious.

S.I.N · 04-08-07, 06:13 PM

35 and you 25? You make it seem like she is closer to 53. The age difference is not that much in my view. If she is hot or attractive in other ways why not.

Capt. Picard · 04-08-07, 06:14 PM

10 years is nothing.

PeterJensen · 04-08-07, 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by de><ta

Mate, I feel like kicking you in the shins for refusing to go in for coffee!

But seriously nothing wrong in dating an older girl. And no you are not in deep water. Just relax and enjoy her company and see what happens. FYI don't go with any expectations.

edit: If she's a chick at work then, yeah it could be a problem later on if things get serious.

Yea guess thats my mistake

Well we are about 1200 persons at my work and i dont really want to see it as a problem

Thx for the advice guys.

Sazar · 04-08-07, 06:19 PM

10 years more experience.

A visual representation of the possibilities.

PeterJensen · 04-08-07, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Sazar

10 years more experience.

A visual representation of the possibilities.

lol

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